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A Different Kind of Mother’s Day

Grief, Relationships | 5 minutes of reading | By Charles Foster Author

A Different Kind of Mother’s Day A Father’s Journey in Grief and Love For many, Mother’s Day is a time for flowers, cards, and family gatherings. But for families who have lost a mother, it can be a day filled with aching hearts and unanswered questions. For a father raising children alone, this day can become a delicate balancing act between honoring the mother who is no longer there and supporting the children who still need her presence in their lives. When a mother passed away, her absence was felt in every corner of the […]

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CHOOSE JOY “Jesus, Others and You”

Blog, Relationships | 3 minutes of reading | By Charles Foster Author

by Judy Cooper: As a young Mississippi mother of two small children (ages 2 and 5), I had a great mentor! Marilyn was older, wiser, and experienced, a mother of four and a sister in Christ. Mama Marilyn’s “Play School” became known as a safe place for parents to drop off their children for a ½ day of “school.” And a great fit for our family. There were a lot of lessons to be learned—and not “just by the kids?” Early on, I noted how Mama Marilyn scooped up all five of her kitties

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Will I Still Be Married to My Spouse in Heaven?

Relationships | 5 minutes of reading | By Charles Foster Author

Will I Still Be Married to My Spouse in Heaven? Christians can get excited knowing they will one day spend eternal life in Heaven. They will be united with God and spend eternity in His beautiful kingdom. As Christians, we all question what Heaven will be like. For some, an important question lingers: Will we be married? A spouse might not top everyone’s questions about the eternal kingdom, but it is a valid worry for many. They may have lost a beloved spouse and are fearful they will not be able to reunite with them

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You Made it Through The Holidays, Now What?

Emotional Health, Grief, Relationships | 3 minutes of reading | By Charles Foster Author

“You Made it Through The Holidays, Now What?” Coping with loss during the holidays and special occasions is an immense challenge, particularly for those who have lost a spouse. While you may have successfully navigated the recent holiday season, it’s crucial to recognize that the journey through grief is ongoing. Your first year, marked by the absence of the person you shared these special moments with, can be particularly poignant. This article reflects on the challenges faced and suggests constructive ways to cope. During the holiday season, the absence of a loved one becomes acutely

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Was it love of just bad timing?

Emotional Health, Grief, Relationships | 4 minutes of reading | By Charles Foster Author

Was it love or just bad timing? Approximately six months after Cindy died, I visited Abilene to visit my kids at college. I received a call from Cindy’s mother on my return trip home. She told me she felt it was time I moved on with my life and informed me she was at my house, cleaning out Cindy’s clothes and had cleaned out the bathroom cabinet of all her perfumes, makeup, etc. In horror, I had no words and somehow remained in control of my car as I pulled over to understand what was

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Experience Loss? Not Ready? Now Is The Time.

Emotional Health, Faith, Financial, Grief, Life Stories, Relationships | 2 minutes of reading | By Charles Foster Author

Experience Loss? Not Ready? Now Is The Time. THESE ARE THE STEPS YOU NEED TO TAKE Losing a loved one is tragic, no matter how it happens. Unfortunately, when you experience loss, knowledge is power. There are critical steps to take to ensure protection from the legal system. In my book, “The Surviving Spouse Club,” on page 236, I have written with considerable detail about each of these 39 unique documents you need at hand at the time of loss. Not having these documents could cost you a lot of money in your time of

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Tell Your Heart To Beat Again

Relationships | 2 minutes of reading | By Charles Foster Author

Tell Your Heart To Beat Again I heard this song by Phillips, Craig & Dean and read the story behind the song. I thought this story and song would bring comfort to all of us who are hurting and give us hope for the future. Pastors come in all shapes and sizes, and their temperaments are different, this pastor is high adrenaline type A, jumping out of airplanes, bungee jumping, motorcycle riding, and all that. He talked to one of his members, a surgeon, to allow him to be in the room during open-heart surgery.

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Considering Dating Again? Move Forward With Caution.

Relationships | 5 minutes of reading | By Charles Foster Author

CONSIDERING DATING AGAIN? MOVE FORWARD WITH CAUTION A CLIENT ASKED ME THIS? I am a divorced woman dating a widower whose wife was a close friend. Our relationship has moved from friendship to something more personal. We have not said love but enjoy each other’s company and feel comfortable together. I no longer live in the same town, but he called me and asked me to come for a visit. He seemed to be doing well and said he wanted to see me. When I arrived, I noticed he still had all her clothes and

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Valentine’s Day Is Approaching, Some Surviving Spouse Suggestions

Relationships | 4 minutes of reading | By Charles Foster Author

Valentine’s Day Is Approaching. Some Surviving Spouse Suggestions We are less than a month away from Valentine’s Day; what is one of the year’s most romantic days according to the calendar? Some discover that just because the calendar, florist, restaurants, and gift shops see Valentine’s Day as romantic, you may dread the word, seeing it on billboards and TV and hearing others talking about it. What was once a special day for you has now become a nightmare. Your Valentine has died, and celebrating now feels out of place. This day only reminds you of

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Helping Your Child Who Lost A Friend

Grief, Relationships | 3 minutes of reading | By Charles Foster Author

Helping Your Child Who Lost A Friend Most adults have experienced a loss of some type during their lifetime. Depending on the relationship, losing friends or family members is very uncomfortable to express. Now, put yourself in the position of a child or young adult. They may have witnessed death on television, but the experience is different when the death is someone they know personally. THE PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP IS IMPORTANT AT EVERY STAGE OF LIFE When young adults of any age face the death of someone they know, the trauma can shake them to their

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