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Situational Awareness

Taking Control of Your Safety Situational Awareness: Taking Control of Your Safety Losing a spouse is one of life’s most difficult experiences, bringing not only emotional challenges but also new responsibilities and concerns. One of these concerns is personal safety. Whether at home, in public, or online, widows and widowers can find themselves vulnerable in ways they may not have considered before. Situational awareness, the ability to recognize and respond to potential threats, is essential. Many of those daily threats come in unexpected ways. It is important to stay safe while maintaining confidence in your […]

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Safety

A Different Kind of Mother’s Day

A Different Kind of Mother’s Day A Father’s Journey in Grief and Love For many, Mother’s Day is a time for flowers, cards, and family gatherings. But for families who have lost a mother, it can be a day filled with aching hearts and unanswered questions. For a father raising children alone, this day can become a delicate balancing act between honoring the mother who is no longer there and supporting the children who still need her presence in their lives. When a mother passed away, her absence was felt in every corner of the

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Grief, Relationships

Our NASA Adventure

Our April NASA Adventure was so much fun. You will understand what I mean by seeing the photos taken that day. There are too many activities to list here, but we hope to do this again. Double-click the first image after you click the link below to see all the full-screen photos. Click Here For Photo Gallery

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CHOOSE JOY “Jesus, Others and You”

by Judy Cooper: As a young Mississippi mother of two small children (ages 2 and 5), I had a great mentor! Marilyn was older, wiser, and experienced, a mother of four and a sister in Christ.   Mama Marilyn’s “Play School” became known as a safe place for parents to drop off their children for a ½ day of “school.”  And a great fit for our family. There were a lot of lessons to be learned—and not “just by the kids?” Early on, I noted how Mama Marilyn scooped up all five of her kitties

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Blog, Relationships

Will I Still Be Married to My Spouse in Heaven?

Will I Still Be Married to My Spouse in Heaven? Christians can get excited knowing they will one day spend eternal life in Heaven. They will be united with God and spend eternity in His beautiful kingdom. As Christians, we all question what Heaven will be like. For some, an important question lingers: Will we be married? A spouse might not top everyone’s questions about the eternal kingdom, but it is a valid worry for many. They may have lost a beloved spouse and are fearful they will not be able to reunite with them

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Relationships

BROOKWOOD TRIP

At Surviving From Loss, we serve our community’s widows in various ways.  Our mission is to be the hands and feet of Jesus to our widows and widowers.  Only those who have lost a spouse can understand such loss.  There are many types of losses in life, and the loss of a spouse is one of the top five.  The widowed have many needs, but one is the need for fellowship.  A widow loses 75% of her friend network after the loss of her husband.  Many widows and widowers state that loneliness is one of

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What To Do When Someone Is Dying

All thoughts below must be weighed with compassion and common sense.  Put yourself in the place of the receiver.  Weigh your words carefully.  Remember, receiving a handwritten, heartfelt card is very powerful to the person you are writing to, but when possible, always make part of your support in person.  It is better to be present and say nothing than to fill the silence with words.  The thoughts below are just guidelines, and your relationship with the receiver of your kindness must be considered. What to Say to Someone Who Is Terminally Ill What do

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Emotional Health, Holidays

You Made it Through The Holidays, Now What?

“You Made it Through The Holidays, Now What?” Coping with loss during the holidays and special occasions is an immense challenge, particularly for those who have lost a spouse. While you may have successfully navigated the recent holiday season, it’s crucial to recognize that the journey through grief is ongoing. Your first year, marked by the absence of the person you shared these special moments with, can be particularly poignant. This article reflects on the challenges faced and suggests constructive ways to cope. During the holiday season, the absence of a loved one becomes acutely

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Emotional Health, Grief, Relationships

The Helene Lamp Story

THE HELENE LAMP STORY The Lord blesses each of us with each day of life, and this month’s members’ spotlight is the perfect example of the Lord’s abundant blessings. Helene Lamp, born October 2, 1921, has already completed 36,865 days thus far and is not slowing down. Helene was born in Germany, and on October 24, 1924, she moved to the U.S. with her parents when she was three years old. They lived in the country community of Neffs, Ohio. In those days, you had to have a sponsor to enter the United States. Her uncle

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Life Stories

The Suzie Holderfield Story

THE SUZIE HOLDERFIELD STORY Jackie Suzanne Koch Holderfield, but we know her as Suzie. Suzanne Holderfield was born in San Antonio, Texas, on June 8, 1954, to loving parents Robert John Koch and Doris Mae Sharp.   Suzie has two older brothers and one younger sister, all living in Texas. Since birth, Suzie has led an exciting life. One of her favorite childhood memories was on her uncle’s ranch in Hondo, Texas. Playing with her three girl cousins as they rode horses and pretended to be real ranch hands. They attended Rosemont Church of Christ, where

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Life Stories

The Mary Favre Story

THE MARY FAVRE STORY On a fantastic fall day, October 27, 1953, in Lake Forrest, Illinois, the world welcomed an energetic baby named Mary Elizabeth Harrington. Mary would be the third child born for a total of eight. She has six brothers and one sister. Mary did not stay in Illinois long. The family moved to Roswell, New Mexico, in 1962. After that, the family moved to San Angelo, Bangs, Abilene, and Dallas, Texas, all before she was in high school. In  November 1966, the family’s house caught fire! Mary was asked to live with her

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The Theresa Lynne Brunker Story

THE THERESA LYNNE BRUNKER STORY March 12, 1955, a beautiful baby girl named Teresa Lynne Brunker was a blessing to her family. The first-born Wichita, Kansas, girl was a farm girl at heart. Her family lived in the city, but her favorite childhood memory was playing on their 40-acre farm outside town. She and her youngest sister had horses, dogs, cats, and goats and loved farm life. Teresa was the oldest of 4 girls and two boys, ten years between herself and the youngest. Her dad worked the farm, and growing up as a young

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The Judy Cooper Story

THE JUDY COOPER STORY Judy Lynn Cooper was born in Jackson, Tennessee, on October 04, 1946. She grew up in a loving Christian home with hard-working parents and two brothers; Judy was the middle child.  Her mom would read Proverbs to her every night before bed. Judy was baptized at 12 years old.   One of her favorite memories: “Our family owned a small country grocery store (which later evolved into a furniture/ appliance store). Our business was next door to our house and required “all hands on deck.”  We all worked – I learned

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Life Stories

The Xenia Hollis Story

THE XENIA HOLLIS STORY A LIFE OF DIFFICULTY AND SURVIVAL On June 21, 1938, Xenia Hollis was born in Djokjakarta, Indonesia, on Java Island. Xenia is the middle child and has an older brother and younger sister. Being the middle child was fantastic because her two siblings got all the attention, and everyone left her alone, allowing her to do whatever she wanted. Life was not easy as a child, though. They were forced to move around a lot. Even in these difficult times, she respected her parents because of their sacrifices. While her dad

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Life Stories

Was it love of just bad timing?

Was it love or just bad timing? Approximately six months after Cindy died, I visited Abilene to visit my kids at college. I received a call from Cindy’s mother on my return trip home. She told me she felt it was time I moved on with my life and informed me she was at my house, cleaning out Cindy’s clothes and had cleaned out the bathroom cabinet of all her perfumes, makeup, etc. In horror, I had no words and somehow remained in control of my car as I pulled over to understand what was

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Emotional Health, Grief, Relationships

The Sara Jane Meyers Story

THE SARA JANE MEYERS STORY At birth, we never know the road or the journey the Lord has planned. The story of Sara Jane Meyers, known as Jane. Jane, born August 1, 1929, in Dallas, survived the beginning of a life that can only be explained by the intervention of the Hand of a loving God. At 93 years of age, Jane tells of a family who adopted her as an infant. The family included the wife, husband, and a mentally challenged child and grandmother. The husband returned home and killed the mother, the mentally

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The Sherry Seyer Story

THE SHERRY SEYER STORY Sherry Ann Seyer brightened this world on August 9th, 1947. Sherry was born in Houston, and as a young little girl, she remembers how special Christmas mornings were in her family. She was born into a Christian home and attended church all her life. Christmas was a time of true celebration. When asked how she came to know Jesus, she said, “It was easy for me. He was with me all the time. I’m very blessed.” When Sherry was only seven years old, she underwent heart surgery due to her heart

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Life Stories

The Donna Eller Story

THE DONNA ELLER STORY Donna Marie Conner Eller was born in Pampa, Texas, on September 7, 1946. How wonderful it is to celebrate her birth, as this interview will be our September Spotlight! Donna’s dad worked in the oil field, which required a lot of travel. She recalls moving around a lot during her first four years in elementary school, but they always returned to Pampa. Her mom would take all the children to the Baptist Church while their Dad was traveling. They attended Sunday School, and Vacation Bible School, and Donna gave her life

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Life Stories

The SFL 1st Annual Christmas party

With the ministry entering the third event of the year, we wanted our Christmas celebration to be unique.  These special ladies have served others their entire lives, so we decided to do something extraordinary.  We invited them to attend this luncheon and not worry about anything.  They are our honored guests, and we had a lovely sit-down luncheon and served each of them in a fine dining fashion.  There were even creative names for each table.  They were served a delicious punch when they arrived while mingling with the other ladies.  When it came time

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